090909...was an unforgetable day for me, not because of I had a sweet and romantic date or dinner, but I had a big quarrel with my aunty, a quarrel that involved she throwing glass bowl at me.
It caused by a small matter, also about some bowl problem, but the true reason consists of unlimited conflicts that happen on and off for 6 years...It's neither my or her fault, It's just simply because we can't accept each other's way, there is a sentence 'siong gin hou, tong ju nan' means there always be a lot of conflicts if stay together, I think maybe just simply because of this..
Move out will be the best solution. Is not to avoid, but to have our own personal space will be better...so that we can breath smoother...
4 comments:
waaaaaaalaooooooo...
even throwing bowl n stuffs like tat?
what happened????
calm down.. calm down..
though i've had similar situation like tat b4, i mean quarrel until i feel like throwing n smashing things to the floor or wall..
somehow, i managed to control myself when i have the pic of consequences in my mind.. which is i'm still the one who has to clean the mess after all..
so, why make my life difficult??
i know the feeling of being so angry & when you are fighting with someone, you just lost ur mind & rationality.. but, smashing things is not goin to help.. it'll just make the quarrel even worst..
who's the one throwing things? you?
or did u also throw things to ur auntie follow by her lead?
when things just gone beyond control, walk away may be is a good way to calm down urself..
though it's not going to solve the problem, at least you can avoid further fighting with that person..
if you really left no choice but to move out, just do it lo..
i support you..
火星撞地球 is a problem that can never be solved.. just like me.. haih..
take care & all the best la..
but at least wait until ur bro finish his SPM exam.. you gotto watch him, n guide him..
be a good sister.. hehe..
wah....finally this had happen huh, at least you have a solution now, all the best huh.
I support your decision. Just go ahead. ^_^
anonymous, may i know u r?
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